I will echo bcarr on the duration aspect of a clamp. Mine works well for getting dried off after a shower or going out to get the morning paper. I rarely use it longer than 20 minutes at a time because I think it's partly cutting off blood circulation. I am 6 1/2 months out from my RALP and am vastly improved over where I was at your stage of recovery. I was very upset that my incontinence went beyond 6 weeks, then beyond 3 months so finally I came to terms with the fact that I wasn't one of the fast healers. I have worked out reasonable solutions to my various needs. Just hanging round the house, one or two thin pads will take me through a day now. Pickleball for two hours requires its own thick pad in a jockstrap. Golf for 4 hours fares best when I use a condom catheter. I have absolutely no idea when I will be able to do these sports without help, but I leak far less playing them now than I used to. Nighttime I sleep naked and I don't leak at all. I do go to the bathroom twice a night though so I don't tempt fate too much. My wife insists I sleep on an extra sheet folded up under me just in case, but I haven't had any accidents yet. I do Kegels whenever I think of it, but now that I'm completely active again, I don't set a timer to do them like I used to. I am 70 and hoping, like you, to be completely dry one day soon.