@Pammy53 Hi there Pam.
There are a ton of natural bladder and urinary health supplements that help to improve not only function but overall bladder health.
Azo Blader Control
D-Mannose 500mg
Nature's Way Kidney &Bladder Health...
Just to name a few.
The following herbs and plants all have healing and rejuvenating properties for supporting bladder health and are often used in many of the different brands of supplements for bladder health. I.E.
Oregon Grape Root
Corn Silk
Raspberry Leaf
Bear berry
Cranberry
Vitamin D
Saw Palmeto
Horsetail
St. John's Wart
Stinging Nettle
These are just a few examples, I'm by no means a doctor. If your interested, do some research online or visit with a naturopathic practitioner to learn more.
I hope that helps answer your question.
In addition to that, as others have said, sometimes it's just healthier to manage the accidents by wearing a diaper. I've tried a bunch of "prescription meds", and they just don't work well enough to justify the horrendous side effects.
Cheers, Bryce