I have not started having accidents until the past year or so. usually about a cut a water right before I make it. Two soakings and two in my car. The vast majority of these have been at work. After I did research on incontinence (urge). I cut out a lot of thing in my life No coke more bread. ..... I was bed wetter child. Now I am 40 and have to deal with OAB. Any of you have the same experience.