Okay, I don't understand something here. If the medications have severe side effects and aren't solving your incontinence, why do people continue its use? I had a head injury 3 decades back and am still having to deal with post concussion symptoms- the same ones these meds cause. Needless to say, I refuse to take these pills. Yes, it means I need incontinence products around the clock, but by the sound of it, many of you folks do as well. Am I missing something here? Why are you (who take these pills) taking the risk? I should mention that dementia is one of the side effects.