OK, so here it goes. I have failed every medication on the market for overactive bladder. I am still wetting my pants on a daily basis-usually twice a day with HUGE volumes. I can't find diapers that work without leaking. I am moving on to step 3-Interstim therapy. Do any other men have this? How well does it work? I am having a hard time since it works for both incontinence and retention?? Any problems with impotence or ejaculation? That part of me still works very well and I don't want to loose that? Any help guys?