There is still a possibility of improvement after 2 yrs. What has your urologist said? I assume you have had periodic check ups. There are procedures that can help with incontinence. The gold standard is the implantation of an artificial urinary sphincter. I have chosen not to pursue this procedure due to my age and past history. It has been 3 1/2 yrs. since my prostatectomy combined with a bladder diverticulotomy. I wear diapers daily. I now have heart failure, and have been told that I should drink 4 liters of water per day. As a result my diaper use has gone up...2-3 per day. I did have control issues prior to my prostatectomy, so I have grown accustomed to wearing diapers. After a period of time, it becomes pretty routine. Hopefully, in your case you will see improvement. Talk to your urologist, and see what he/she suggests. Good luck.