,missy 63, so sorry to hear about your leaking, but if you age is 63 that might be your problem. I have heavy oab,and urge and stress incontinence
and I have been to many Drs,some have helped some what and I have had many procedures done. I read a lot about the problem and a lot ofarticles say it is part of aging for some people. Mine I think is nerve damage, due to childbirth and heredity. so don't give up , but yes I have very bad days and depression dealing with this,I wish you good luck. stay safe and keep reading and going to .your Drs