Every urologist that I’ve ever consulted has recommended that I use an external diaper instead of wearing a diaper. However, as others have pointed out, they are tricky to apply; and if a leak occurs, it is likely to involve a high volume of urine. In fact, the worst experience I’ve ever had with my incontinence occurred at a Christmas party at my boss’s house. I bumped into the corner of a table, and the collection bag connected to the external catheter that I was wearing burst, creating a puddle on an antique Persian rug. I think diapers are a much better alternative than an external catheter. But that’s just my opinion. Supposedly, many men prefer external catheters.