I've been a bed wetter my entire life. Youth size Attends was what I first used when I outgrew baby diapers. They were available in most drug stores. As I grew I continued with Attends into adulthood. Occasionally there were leaks. On a forum such as this many years ago, someone mentioned Abena was better. By then I was buying off the internet anyway so I bought Abena M4. I still had occasional leaks but not near what I had with Attends. Somewhere in all this my incontinence became I daytime issue also. I'm very active. My problem with Abena was during heavy activity, the absorbent material would fall apart and end up in the rear and it would handle my voids. Had to change much more often and not because the diaper was that wet. Which was not cost effective. About 3 years ago I switched to ConfiDry 24/7 mediums and by far they are the best. They hold up better during day and remain very absorbent even if padding is starting to shift. At night for extra assurance I use a tranquility booster (not one that interferes with the leg gathers) and I have never had a leak at night.