I have shared this story before here, and I must be very lucky, but after hearing stories about what was supposed to happen to me post surgery, (leaks, diapers, slings, mesh etc.) I made the statement to many people close to me that I would rather be dead. After watching friends and family members die from one cancer or another, 3 from Prostate cancer, which I had poking its way out of my gland. I decided that was not the way I wanted to die in 2020. I was waking up with a soaked pad every morning after the catheter was removed, and made myself a promise that this had to end. I found out that my wife was taking my prosta Genix. for HER urinary incontinence, and it was working, and SHE wasn't born with a prostate gland. I started taking it again, and the pad soaking stopped, and my control came back exponentially fast. (I was 73 when I had the radical) I still take the prosta genix, and have not heard from anyone here who tried it that it didn't help. I don't have the confidence (in my holding power) that I used to have, and wearing a pad is just practical with trips and events with questionable available facilities, but I would like everyone who faces this to not give up without a fight. Beat the Cancer first, then beat this....