Hi Clayton. I'm sorry you're having issues with the cloth diapers. Can you talk to your grandmother about switching you to a disposable diaper with tape tabs? Disposable tape on diapers tend to be more absorbent than pull-ups for managing bedwetting. Better Dry makes a disposable diaper with tape tabs that is highly rated by many people.You can purchase them at L.L. Medico, XP Medical, North Shore Care, as well as other places.