Bk,
I had a friend that lived down near San Antonio, and she swore by cotton reusable products. She said the fabric allowed her skin to breath much better than disposables, and she was able to incorporate them easily into her wardrobe. They do take a bit of an investment, and can be bulkier than disposables, a lot depends (No pun intended!) on the amount & frequency of leakage.
I’ve dealt with this incontinence for 30 years now, and live in the Hot & Muggy Carolina’s and I use a mix of both. Over time the reusables make better sense, and are far more comfortable in my opinion, but I need the absorbency of disposables if I’m going to be out & about for any period of time.
There are far more options than ever these days, so I’d follow Kevin’s suggestion and see what Northshore might provide. I use their products and Better Dry most often. Kins or Babykins for the reusables.
Best of luck, lots of variables!