You really won't find much in the big box stores in the way of really well-made pull-ups but I like the ones that have leg gathers that do a good job of holding in urine so it doesn't leak out of the leg and groin area. The suggestion to go with North Shore is an excellent one as the specialize in really well-made incontinence products. And there are other online places that I've used that can also provide something decent. In addition to North Shore, there's Carewell which is in Charlotte NC, Parentgiving, HPFY (in Connecticut I think), HDIS (St. Louis)and plenty of others just by searching online for incontinence supplies. Most of them, including the ones I've mentioned, will have knowledgeable reps who will know exactly what you're talking about and will provide suggestions as well as send out samples. Just tell them you're concerned about leakage from the leg and groin area and they will understand. Good luck and hope you find something good soon!