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I feel absolutely sickened when I hear about a child being punished for bedwetting or a daytime accident. It is not the child's fault whatsoever. This is something that's considered a medical thing so why would anyone in his or her right mind even think of punishing a child for it? After all the child did not WANT to wet. But many times a kid saying that will be rebuffed by the parent and made to feel even worse. If the child had a heart condition, cerebral palsy, asthma, a brain tumor, or something equally serious would one punish the child for that???? They better not! And enuresis although obviously not a deadly condition is a medical condition, nonetheless. And to hear the horror stories of how kids were killed or severely injured for wetting the bed is just nauseating!
At the nature center where we have field trips, we see children coming in for a fun day of learning. They love being out in the woods and at the lake, having lunch outside, and it really shows! They are not in school or at home and they take in all of the sights, sounds, smells and other sensations that nature offers. They ask all sorts of questions and we get comments such as "This is even better than Disneyworld!". That adds to our day as well and I go home feeling completely rewarded! And when I see the kids eagerly get off the bus or I take them down to the lake I just hope that they are all safe and happy at home. I hope when they get home they tell the family about the wonderful day they had. But the truth is, I don't know how realistic that is as some of the kids have probably had a horrendous night before and a tearful morning. Those are the ones I wish we could keep at the center so they can stay safe and happy as they should be, and shielded from the horrors at home.
If this sparks painful memories for anyone reading this, I'm really and truly sorry. But please know that compassion and true,heartfelt discussion are the ways to deal with this. Please comment if you would like to.
At the nature center where we have field trips, we see children coming in for a fun day of learning. They love being out in the woods and at the lake, having lunch outside, and it really shows! They are not in school or at home and they take in all of the sights, sounds, smells and other sensations that nature offers. They ask all sorts of questions and we get comments such as "This is even better than Disneyworld!". That adds to our day as well and I go home feeling completely rewarded! And when I see the kids eagerly get off the bus or I take them down to the lake I just hope that they are all safe and happy at home. I hope when they get home they tell the family about the wonderful day they had. But the truth is, I don't know how realistic that is as some of the kids have probably had a horrendous night before and a tearful morning. Those are the ones I wish we could keep at the center so they can stay safe and happy as they should be, and shielded from the horrors at home.
If this sparks painful memories for anyone reading this, I'm really and truly sorry. But please know that compassion and true,heartfelt discussion are the ways to deal with this. Please comment if you would like to.