WOW! I missed all of this. While i don't approve of what this guy allegedly did, and I understand the structure of the group as support and not fetish, I'm a little surprised by the profoundly judgmental comments so many of you put up here! To use words like disgusting, perverted, freak, gross, sick, and infested is TOTALLY uncalled for. Shame on you guys! Many of us have been through difficult and unpleasant experiences, not to mention shaming, as the result of being incontinent and/or wearing diapers - especially as younger kids / teenagers. I would expect more from you than to heap unnecessary hate on someone else. Very disappointing.