Tim said:Tough to answer that. What is bulky to one may not be to another, or the opposite. They are wide in the center (the part that goes between your legs). I wear large size. I am 6'-4" tall. On me the top of the front ends at my belly button and in the rear it rises to maybe and inch or so above where my crack ends. They do have a good amount of padding inside. Fairly tall leak guards. (one of the keys, in my opinion, to a diaper that leaks less frequently). I only wear them at night so I find myself not as concerned over if you can tell I am wearing a diaper.
I can see them through shorts or pajama bottoms I wear around the house before bed. They are plastic backed so they do have a crinkly sound to them. For me, those in my house know I wear diapers so I am not concerned over noise. Not a lot of noise but if you are in a quiet setting you will definitely hear them.
A couple points of note: The supreme briefs use tape that land directly on the diaper face. They do have a 2nd tab that makes it reusable. I like my diapers tight when I put them on (I think this helps with not leaking, good seal to the legs and butt cheeks) Because if this the tapes "pop" off for me through the night. I put tape over the tabs and this cures it for me. (I am not worried about opening and closing the diaper for me once its on its on till morning, or if I've had a really bad night it get's changed)
The mega max tapes are applied to a shiny top plastic that is on the front of the diaper. The tapes can be taken on and off of this plastic if needed. The tapes on the mega max are very strong. I never had them "pop" off or need extra help to stay fastened.
Hope this helps. I would give them a try. Maybe see if you can get sample of start with a bag. If they work well then move to the large qty's.
Tim said:so.... from a comical side...you stay home using your "issue's" as an excellent reason to not see the in-laws? I love it!
Seriously though. If it's enjoyable to visit family I would encourage you to try and visit. For me that requires a little more thought and planning (based on conditions: where to change, how to dispose of used products, etc), but the reward of seeing friends and family "usually" outweighs the extra effort.
Just a little food for thought. You have to do what works best for you not what works best for me.