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Hello everyone. It's been a while since I have posted on here. Well, as you can see the title of the post says everything. I have been living in the basement of my folks place for many years. I had moved back into there house to help them out with stuff around the house. They are in there 80's now. They have finally decided to sell the house and move to assisted living. My father is showing signs of dementia and alzheimer's. My mother has problems with balance. She falls once in a while. So, it's a good choice to move to assisted living.
My case is that I am also moving. I found a two bedroom apartment to share with a co-worker. My co-worker is a younger gentleman that has issues trying to make it to work on time. He is currently renting a room in a house that he is not comfortable living in. I told him that he can move in with me and I can help him get to work on time. He took the offer right away. My work days start pretty early. I am a dispatcher for a school bus company and he is one of my drivers plus a yard guy. Now the matter starts we me. No one at work knows that I wear diapers. Pull-ups is what I have been wearing at work. At night, I wear Tranquility ATN diapers. For the most part I can get by with one diaper at night. There are nights that I have to get up and change. The bedrooms at the apartment are right next to each other and not very insulated for sound. Those of you know when you have to change, taking off the diaper is noisy. That is my least worries. When I get home from work, I change out of my pullup and put on a regular diaper. If I am not going out for the evening, I just put on lounging pants. My question is this. Do I just tell him upfront before we make the move? Or just wait until we get settled in? He is going to find out if I don't say anything. We have a pretty good friendship going. I just hope he is supportive.
My case is that I am also moving. I found a two bedroom apartment to share with a co-worker. My co-worker is a younger gentleman that has issues trying to make it to work on time. He is currently renting a room in a house that he is not comfortable living in. I told him that he can move in with me and I can help him get to work on time. He took the offer right away. My work days start pretty early. I am a dispatcher for a school bus company and he is one of my drivers plus a yard guy. Now the matter starts we me. No one at work knows that I wear diapers. Pull-ups is what I have been wearing at work. At night, I wear Tranquility ATN diapers. For the most part I can get by with one diaper at night. There are nights that I have to get up and change. The bedrooms at the apartment are right next to each other and not very insulated for sound. Those of you know when you have to change, taking off the diaper is noisy. That is my least worries. When I get home from work, I change out of my pullup and put on a regular diaper. If I am not going out for the evening, I just put on lounging pants. My question is this. Do I just tell him upfront before we make the move? Or just wait until we get settled in? He is going to find out if I don't say anything. We have a pretty good friendship going. I just hope he is supportive.
