Welcome to you SuzieB. I too am a female who suffers from extreme urge incontinence. I know what a daily struggle it is. I'm 60 years old and have recently been diagnosed with Neurogenic bladder. I have suffered for many, many years with urinary incontinence. Feel free to ask me any questions that maybe I could be of assistance with. Of course nothing can take the place of a professional examination but I can tell you what works for me on a daily basis. I pretty much am a "home-body" now that I'm retired so for the most part I don't go out in public very often. I spent well over 30 years wanting to be home so I am quite content with it. My incontinence seems to have escalated over the last few years; especially since having COVID-19. But according to the good folks on this forum and my research, this is not uncommon Again, welcome to you and I believe you will find the forum a good place with alot of really great, compassionate, helpful people.
You’ll get to know us. The reason there are more men here is because they get prostate cancer and need help with the ensuing incontinence.