U relly need to go and. See your doctor over the bed wetting.there's tablets and test they can try out on you and it will be best to. Tell yur boy friend its better to tell him you wet the bed then him finding out if he loves you then your bed wetting. Will be no big deal and he will support. You like you I was a bed wetter. And I still am iam aged 44 don't be shy about telling your doctor. As they hear it alot good luck