Heat and trying to hide.

[ThatFLGuy]

I wear clothing to cover my need for a diaper and keep leaks down. Well this week has been so crazy hot aready that I am thinking about ditching some of the extra protection I wear (Garywear Pul pants, Fixing pants, boxers and a tucked-in undershirt)

This weekend is a big family runion at my grandparents house. It is outside and they are calling for almost 90* weather. I cannot handle being dehydrated.

I might says the heck with it and just wear shorts and boxers with no extra covers.

 

[bio]

Ciao. Sono completamente incontinente da 6 anni. Indosso i pannolini 24 ore al giorno. All'inizio ho sempre cercato di nascondermi. Di non farmi vedere. Poi ho imparato a capire che voglio vivere. Non posso cercare di nascondere il mio pannolino per tutta la vita. Lo indosso. Sono costretta, non ho scelta. Indosso i pannolini o faccio un pasticcio ovunque vado e continuamente. I pannolini, anche se sono visibili sotto i vestiti, fanno parte della mia vita. Se gli altri se ne accorgono, non importa. Meglio i pannolini che i vestiti sporchi e bagnati.

 

[bio]

Ciao. Sono completamente incontinente da 6 anni. Indosso i pannolini 24 ore al giorno. All'inizio ho sempre cercato di nascondermi. Di non farmi vedere. Poi ho imparato a capire che voglio vivere. Non posso cercare di nascondere il mio pannolino per tutta la vita. Lo indosso. Sono costretta, non ho scelta. Indosso i pannolini o faccio un pasticcio ovunque vado e continuamente. I pannolini, anche se sono visibili sotto i vestiti, fanno parte della mia vita. Se gli altri se ne accorgono, non importa. Meglio i pannolini che i vestiti sporchi e bagnati.

 

[ThatFLGuy]

BIO. English is my only language but.


Grazie per la risposta. Due cose.

Primo, grazie per la risposta.

Secondo, è pazzesco che abbia capito che fosse italiano grazie a Magic: The Gathering, avendo delle carte in italiano, e anche per il mio amore per la musica lirica.

 

[bio]

hi, sorry. I got confused. I live in Italy, but we don't have the possibility to have forums like that

 

[ADFW61]

I wear clothing to cover my need for a diaper and keep leaks down. Well this week has been so crazy hot aready that I am thinking about ditching some of the extra protection I wear (Garywear Pul pants, Fixing pants, boxers and a tucked-in undershirt)

This weekend is a big family runion at my grandparents house. It is outside and they are calling for almost 90* weather. I cannot handle being dehydrated.

I might says the heck with it and just wear shorts and boxers with no extra covers.

I feel for you. I’m in the uk and in the summer often just wear a polo shirt and shorts over my nappy. No boxers or anything else. I’m in hospital at the moment and it’s 32 degrees with no aircon. I NEVER just wear a T-shirt and nappy but I have been all this week. Luckily I have my own room and I put on some loose light trousers for the post op physio! The doctors and nurses have all been amazing. Not a word said and the nurses have helped change me…rather frequently as I’ve been drinking lots of water!

 

[justej]

we have been having a nasty heatwave here. I’m going to meet some friends for dinner and even though they have been along side with me throughout this whole incontinence journey I still struggle with embarrassment at times. Not from them but others. Since I use a night bag for my. Supeapubic cath there is a long tube that hangs. Even though it’s hot as hell I’m wearing pants to help conceal the cath. I have a bag that hangs underneath my wheelchair seat that hides the bag so that helps.

The good thing is I have paratransit (a wheelchair van) that takes me where I need to go (and it’s cheaper than a wheelchair Uber which is so unreliable. There are only 8 vans for all of DC!) so I’m usually not in the heat long. Some days I don’t care at all. But for some reason today I do. Who knows.

 

[ThatFLGuy]

So. I have not changed what I am doing yet, but I am working on it. Last month was pure chaos. Family reunion followed by another family reunion the very next weekend. My biggest WTH thing is that even some of my family that know about everything I have going on still feel the need to try to get me to do more than I can/should be doing then all Heck breaks lose with my bowels. I had to flat out say no to several people over thing they wanted me to help them carry.

So here is what I realize. I look fine to everyone else. Like nothing is wrong. So they assume that I, the big guy I am, should/will help them carry everything. But then I crap my pants because I cannot focuse on keeping my core working and carrying something. So I am going to make myself be a lot more vocal about what is going on and not do what I should not be doing.

Also it doesn't help that this heat has made my bowel issues worse right now.

So yeah.

I still don't understand why we let that little rodent control our weather.

HAY GROUND HOG PHIL. YOU SUCK!!!