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Today marks one year since I had my Ileostomy surgery. To say that it has been a crazy ride would be an understatement. Countless times I have wondered if the ostomy was the right choice. In October of last year, a colonoscopy showed that I have diversion colitis (confirmed by my main GI doctor as well)
The big issue for me is that the GI doctor felt back in January that the best choice moving forward would be to undo my ileostomy and see if it fixes my diversion colitis.
For me, that was a non-starter conversation as my history with pelvic floor issues would mean going back to dealing with all the things that were why doctors felt like an ileostomy was my only choice.
Just to give an idea, I have been dealing with pelvic floor dysfunction that now is labeled as pelvic floor instability. Even with my ileostomy, I suffer from chronic pelvic floor spams in my rectum and sometimes in my bladder. The rectum spams have been debilitating. My colorectal surgeon agreed to give Botox a second chance back in January as no I do not have all the issues I did the first time we tried it. (Tried it before my ostomy and it left my BM’s like that of a baby)
There is a lot of issues with my ostomy. It hurts all the time and is a pain to deal with. Also, I have been dealing with dehydration due to my ostomy for quite some time. Doctors do not have answers for what to do next with that.
It feels like the only option that they are giving me is to ondo my ostomy but that means a lot of time at doctors' offices and back on the medications I was on. It also still means needing Botox which also means back to fecal incontinence as well as everything else.
I did pelvic floor physical therapy for three years with no help. My therapist felt that something bigger was going on.
Now I feel like doctors do not have a clue with to do for/with me. My PCP went so far as to say that it was the most complex case he has had and would only recommend I talk to my GI about what to do next.
GI is very hard to get to see but after reaching out she is working on getting me seen asap. At this point, if GI has no answers I am going to seek a second opinion.
I am lucky to have a girlfriend that also has an ostomy that keeps me grounded and is a person to talk to about all this stuff.
I don’t know what else to do with all of this. My GF feels like if I do not get an appointment soon then she is going to make me see her doctors. I am not against this but starting over sucks.
I truly am feeling like the doctors messed up and now I am stuck dealing with all of this.
Trying to keep my cool with all of this but nothing is being done to fix what is going on.
The big issue for me is that the GI doctor felt back in January that the best choice moving forward would be to undo my ileostomy and see if it fixes my diversion colitis.
For me, that was a non-starter conversation as my history with pelvic floor issues would mean going back to dealing with all the things that were why doctors felt like an ileostomy was my only choice.
Just to give an idea, I have been dealing with pelvic floor dysfunction that now is labeled as pelvic floor instability. Even with my ileostomy, I suffer from chronic pelvic floor spams in my rectum and sometimes in my bladder. The rectum spams have been debilitating. My colorectal surgeon agreed to give Botox a second chance back in January as no I do not have all the issues I did the first time we tried it. (Tried it before my ostomy and it left my BM’s like that of a baby)
There is a lot of issues with my ostomy. It hurts all the time and is a pain to deal with. Also, I have been dealing with dehydration due to my ostomy for quite some time. Doctors do not have answers for what to do next with that.
It feels like the only option that they are giving me is to ondo my ostomy but that means a lot of time at doctors' offices and back on the medications I was on. It also still means needing Botox which also means back to fecal incontinence as well as everything else.
I did pelvic floor physical therapy for three years with no help. My therapist felt that something bigger was going on.
Now I feel like doctors do not have a clue with to do for/with me. My PCP went so far as to say that it was the most complex case he has had and would only recommend I talk to my GI about what to do next.
GI is very hard to get to see but after reaching out she is working on getting me seen asap. At this point, if GI has no answers I am going to seek a second opinion.
I am lucky to have a girlfriend that also has an ostomy that keeps me grounded and is a person to talk to about all this stuff.
I don’t know what else to do with all of this. My GF feels like if I do not get an appointment soon then she is going to make me see her doctors. I am not against this but starting over sucks.
I truly am feeling like the doctors messed up and now I am stuck dealing with all of this.
Trying to keep my cool with all of this but nothing is being done to fix what is going on.