Bedwetting at 28

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Pls help I've been bedwetting since birth.. Sometimes thrice in a month but now its everyday. I just got married and i do not want my husband to find out about it cos its so embarrassing. I'm totally fedup. Pls help

 

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what are doing for it now?

 

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Haven't done anything yet

 

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Ketchup, he loves you! He WILL adjust. Just arrange things so he won’t be impacted, like a bed pad down or wear pull-ups. Be honest with him. I was dating a man (who, granted, was a nurse) and when it got to the point that I was likely to wet the bed, I told him about it and offered to have him sleep in the extra room. He lived out of state so we had limited time together, and he opted to sleep with me in the bed anyway.

 

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This is a medical condition and should be presented as such. It would be better if he had known about it before you were married, but tell him as soon as possible - don't let it be a surprise discovery. Can you discuss this comfortably with your mother or your mother-in-law? Sometimes women of the older generation can be a big comfort and help. Also, you should tell your primary doctor and your gynecologist and ask for a referral to a urologist, if possible one who specializes in "female problems." Some people have vision problems; some people don't hear so well; some have bladder problems. You are not alone.

 

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just tell him, if he loves you, he will understand. If he doesn't-his lost -not yours. also you are not alone big time. He might have some problems in the future-how would you react-this is probably how he will.

 

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@Ketchup Take care of yourself, that means telling your husband, seeing a doctor and wearing protection at night. Don't let embarrassment and shame keep you from doing what you need to do.

 

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Ketchup, as a newly wed you have experienced a lot of stress recently and probably increased sexual activity. Go find a sympathetic female gynocoligist or doctor and get fully checked out but also it can be a urinary tract infection from the stress of a new marriage that is working on you.
I dont know what kind of night clothes you favor but you might need to use a disposable underwear product after intimacy because she of us are just buuilt with a weaker internall muscle support dystem. A physical thrrapist might be precribed for internal strengthening exercise. Some have suggested accupunture. You might taalk with your husband using terms like "i have a sensitive bladder annd its acting up right now."
Kudos to all previous messages they are all true!

 

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If he loves you honestly it won't be a problem. My wife completely accepts my bedwetting and never sees it as a big deal.

 

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Congratulations on your marriage! And yes to what everyone else has written to help you.

 

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My wife fully supports me wearing diapers and plastic pants for my bedwetting. I sleep so hard at night, almost nothing wakes me up. Hope your spouse fully supports your issue.

 

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Hi Ketchup,
I just sent you a pm.
Hope things are going well!
Hi everyone!
Happy Saturday!

Jim in Maryland

 

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@Ketchup I see this is 8 months old so hope all it good. But just ant to add. If you are wetting mostly nightly I am sure he knows. And if he knows but is not saying anything then he must respect and love you sooooooooooo much. Tell him and work on this together as a team and not alone.