I too had spinal surgery on my back in the 1990’s. I’ve also had 4 other back surgeries. I have rods and screws from L5 to L2. My last surgery was because I broke the titanium rods and they had replace them with cobalt rods. Unfortunately, for me, after the last surgery, about 5 years ago, it left me totally incontinent. I no longer feel when I have to urinate; so I leak or pee most of the time. I wear Tranquility ATN diapers at night and Medline extended wear diapers during the day. I change them 6-8 times a day/night. It’s a big expense but most of it is covered by my insurance thankfully. I am still active, but a year ago I lost my right leg, below the knee, due to necrotizing fasciitis (a flesh eating bacteria) and spent 6 months in a nursing home while recovering and waiting for my home to be modified for me. A CNA came and changed my diapers all the time. Yes, this was my first experience with a woman changing my diapers. I actually learned to like it, but sometimes I sat in wet diapers too long and got diaper rash very bad. They took care of it, but it hurts and leaves you very uncomfortable. Since then I get diaper rash easily. Does anyone else get diaper rash easily? If so, how do you treat it? I’m a 65 year old male, but feel like a little kid because of my problem. My wife helps me to try and cope and is a super wife. Most times I’m okay with it but some days I get upset. Thank you all, for the support you give. It is greatly appreciated.