I've seen several other boards totally infested with fetish people. The Depend forum for instance is essentially useless because it's a giant ABDL circle jerk. It's hard to tell sometimes. I give anyone the benefit of the doubt but have to admit I was suspicious here.
Anyway, this is an anonymous internet room. There's not a lot of reason to be shy.
OP, I'm 35, I wet the bed every night. I manage it with diapers. If you want to talk to me offline, send me a private message and I'll give you my email address. I'm honestly not sure what I'd tell you privately that I wouldn't say here but if you have questions I'll answer them by email if it helps.