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Hey guys,
I had a very promising conversation with someone which left me with more hope than disappointment. My feelings were validated thank God; however, i am still feeling thus. Have you ever been in a situation where you feel a long journey is still ahead? As if, your trials are far from over? Its as if i traveled a long distance from the Earth to the Moon; and now that i have landed; i have to start taking steps. I feel like a fish out of water, a bee without a hive.
But tonight i reflect and say, I survived!
Im starting to feel human again. I feel my voice is finally being heard. But anyway,
If you are suffering from any situation and in these instances on the NAFC message boards from continence issues - you will get through it.
You will prevail, you will meet every obstacle head on and wake up each day a better person. You will walk through the mud, the snow, the sand - and you will be stronger for it.
Don't feel labeled because of a name or a term. I felt embittered for so long over the word "incontinence" and "bedwetting". Its things I dont really open up to others about unless they are in the same boat - or are personally very close to.
Im very fortunate enough to have a doctor/urologist who gives me dignity when talking about the topic, i get very embarassed and softspoken/lathargic with those words - so they cater to my humility. "Enuresis" works for me. Of course, when describing my condition, they still have to use "urge incontinence" and medical jargon and things like that. But im very thankful that when starting out the conversation, a less damaging term is used.
Im thankful i have a doctor that cares enough to see there patients humility - i suppose its the character trait of "Knowing your patients".
Does anybody else feel embarassed/ashamed when having to explain themselves on these conditions to the doctor?
I remember growing up having to go to the doctor/uroligist - and those days i just felt helpless. I was under my moms care - so those days you kinda just dont really care. More of the humiliation and scare was feeling alone during sleepovers and boy scouts, etc. The doctors was the least of my concerns.
Now as a young adult; its not so much about; its about feeling different and embarassed in general about people talking to you about it and treating you differently because of it.
My humble thoughts,
HC
I had a very promising conversation with someone which left me with more hope than disappointment. My feelings were validated thank God; however, i am still feeling thus. Have you ever been in a situation where you feel a long journey is still ahead? As if, your trials are far from over? Its as if i traveled a long distance from the Earth to the Moon; and now that i have landed; i have to start taking steps. I feel like a fish out of water, a bee without a hive.
But tonight i reflect and say, I survived!
Im starting to feel human again. I feel my voice is finally being heard. But anyway,
If you are suffering from any situation and in these instances on the NAFC message boards from continence issues - you will get through it.
You will prevail, you will meet every obstacle head on and wake up each day a better person. You will walk through the mud, the snow, the sand - and you will be stronger for it.
Don't feel labeled because of a name or a term. I felt embittered for so long over the word "incontinence" and "bedwetting". Its things I dont really open up to others about unless they are in the same boat - or are personally very close to.
Im very fortunate enough to have a doctor/urologist who gives me dignity when talking about the topic, i get very embarassed and softspoken/lathargic with those words - so they cater to my humility. "Enuresis" works for me. Of course, when describing my condition, they still have to use "urge incontinence" and medical jargon and things like that. But im very thankful that when starting out the conversation, a less damaging term is used.
Im thankful i have a doctor that cares enough to see there patients humility - i suppose its the character trait of "Knowing your patients".
Does anybody else feel embarassed/ashamed when having to explain themselves on these conditions to the doctor?
I remember growing up having to go to the doctor/uroligist - and those days i just felt helpless. I was under my moms care - so those days you kinda just dont really care. More of the humiliation and scare was feeling alone during sleepovers and boy scouts, etc. The doctors was the least of my concerns.
Now as a young adult; its not so much about; its about feeling different and embarassed in general about people talking to you about it and treating you differently because of it.
My humble thoughts,
HC